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“Lifelong learning represents learning from cradle to grave, while focusing on learning that can take place both within and outside the education system” E. Boeren Lifelong learning and reflection are my goals. They define my life’s vision. I am content. Are you? Lifelong learning has led me to learn four languages, earn a doctorate degree, complete too many certificates and launch a small business. I am eager to keep going and I look forward to the next step. Do you have a goal that helps you get up every morning? Reflection on my routine helps me compose my next step. I hang on and build on acceptable experiences. I let go of tedious and unpleasant involvements. I analyze, synthesize and evaluate to reveal what makes me happy. Have you ever tried to reflect on your day? Where Are You Headed?I know where I am headed and I realize that I will have to negotiate unpredictable events along the way. It’s ok. I will revisit and reframe My goals and vision will once again illuminate where I am headed and I will triumph. How flexible are your goals? I find it excruciating to select a single purpose or passion. I have a few...what about you? Your Career DirectionI focus on navigating career direction rather than discovering purpose. Reflecting on a question such as, what you would like to do now or next? is so much easier than, what is your purpose or passion? My direction is clear and guided by my objectives, core values and vision. What do you think? I stopped trying to find my purpose when I realized I have many. I get energized when I help others succeed and it’s definitely one of my many purposes. How many purposes do you think you have? I discourage clients from focusing on just one passion. Can you identify your one true passion? Define Your ValuesI encourage clients to unravel their core values. Achievement, challenge, growth and knowledge are some of mine. It’s ok to have many. My values guide how I move forward with a little bit of trepidation (fear of failure?) and a lot of confidence. What are some of your core values?
Too many questions for you to think about? Try responding to them one at a time and you will joyfully move forward. I have figured out where I am headed. It took me a very long time but I am happy now. Are you?
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The warrior and the artist live by the same code of necessity, which dictates that the battle must be fought anew every day – S. Pressfield In order to succeed, you have to design a plan. Name Your PlanYou need to give your plan a name, “Dream”, “I know What I Am Doing”, “Optimism”, “War to Success”, “(insert your name) plan” or whatever helps you to stay laser focused on your plan. Yes, I have a plan. I give mine a fancy professional name – Hoda’s Career Management Plan (CMP) – and for the sake of this article I will use CMP. Please share your plan’s name in the comments section. Draft Your PlanDrafting your first Career Management Plan can be scary. Where do you start? When should the plan start? Can you do it? These are all valid questions. The answer is; yes, you can do it. How about you start designing your CMP as soon as you are done reading this article?  What To IncludeWhat to include in this CMP? Well, think about what is really important to you. What is it that you dream about day in and day out? What matters the most to you? What is it that you hate about your day? What would it take to make you happy? Once you start answering these questions, then you are on your way to creating your plan. The most important thing to remember is that there are no right or wrong answers. This is your CMP and you have to do it your way or you will not be able to follow through on it. As you write down your CMP, be as specific as you can in your questions. For example, my plan to write this article involved a plan. Some of the specific questions I asked myself: Which day/s will you be able to write? What time works for you? Which image will you use? Is using a quote in every article really important? And so on, you get the idea. Once you visualize your plan, there is one hurdle that you need to be aware of. It is common belief that it is very hard to stick to a plan due to our fears; fear of failure or even, believe it or not, fear of success. Get Over Your Fears - Slay The DragonIn his book, the War of Art, Pressfield gives our fears (our enemy) a war worthy name “Resistance”. He describes CMP as a Battle Plan (you can use this too as a name for your plan) to fight the dragons (possible enemies or fears??) that keep you from your success. Whatever you decide to call your plan, my take from Pressfield’s book is that in order to win the battle (succeed) you have to face your fears daily and fight the Resistance until you win. Here is how he describes his winning stance when he completed writing his first book: I felt like a dragon I’d been fighting all my life had just dropped dead at my feet and gasped its last sulfuric breath Do you sense his happiness? Can you hear, imagine or feel that emotion? Well, now it is your turn. Focus On Your TargetWhat matters most is that you design your CMP. Your CMP will help you figure out your career target; it can be writing an article, starting an ice cream business or whatever you want. Your CMP will also guide you to work out the details of how you will achieve that target. Here are some more ideas:
Keep In MindDo not worry too much if the dates hit and you have not reached your goals. Life happens; you need to accept this and set new dates or targets. However, ask yourself questions as to the reason/s that you did not accomplish your goals. Sometimes you will find that your goals may need redefining and or readjustment. This is also fine. Over time and for many reasons, your plans will change to target a new career path.
Once you win your first battle and get over the excitement of winning, then you start again. Thinking about what success in achieving your target will look and feel like will keep you motivated to reach your career target/s. Are you ready for battle? |
HodaDr. Hoda Kilani is a Certified Professional Career Coach (CPCC). As a career management professional, she works with clients in private practice, event facilitation (including carousels and vision boards), conference presentation, and writing. ConnectInvest 1/2 hour in your success. Book a free consultation to learn how Hoda helps you succeed.
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